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We all have, even those of who don’t admit it, won’t acknowledge or own it, an erotic nature.
For many of us, it’s deep, it’s wide, it’s open.
And when we allow it expression, it’s fun, it’s exciting and challenging.
It’s a source of growth, a place of learning, a tool for growth, and a stream of endless entertainment, to say nothing of the arousal.

For a long time it wasn’t admitted that women didn’t have a fantasy world or erotic life.
Nancy Friday gave a wonderful wake-up call and shocked many when she published ‘My Secret Garden’.
This was a collection of women’s sexual fantasies, published as she received them. They cover a wide, very wide range of topics, themes and possibilities.
And they showed that women have fantasies, erotic thoughts and desires. Oh yes indeed!
Recently we’ve been subjected to ’50 Shades’ and the flood that’s come from it.

All this has made it ok for us, men and women, to acknowledge the erotic side of life.
More than that, we can enjoy, explore, express, relish and savour this beautiful aspect of ourselves.
The wonders of technology have given us many outlets for erotic expression.

The word ‘erotic’ conjures up many images.
What’s erotic for me may be pornographic for you.
This is a big debate and discussion which we go into much more in the Awakening the Erotic Spirit Workshop.

Beyond the arousal and excitement, our erotic nature has a deeper aspect and purpose.
It becomes a guide to our inner worlds, to that which we keep hidden, that which we don’t acknowledge.
The aspects of erotica that attract us tell us things about ourselves.
And allow us to explore them.
This requires an awareness, a consciousness.
We need to look at what arouses us, see where it comes from, what does it mean, where can it take us, what can it reveal, what can it heal, what can it show us about ourselves, about each other?
Then it can give us opportunity for discussion, for sharing, for exploring.
This gives safety, a way to go to places we wouldn’t otherwise have a way to go.

Beyond that, beyond the deep and meaningful, is the fun and excitement.
The world of erotica can be a world of such beauty.
In images, the human body is simply a manifestation of this beauty. It’s endless expression and variety touches us deeply.
The portrayal in words and pictures of acts of love, of sensuality and pleasure can be enchanting, they touch us.

As we explore this world it allows us to share what excites us, doors of communication open, we open ourselves, deeply, we become vulnerable in our sharing, our revealing. New levels of intimacy become possible.

And in this we can start to release judgement.
We can own the fantasy and the desire, what turns us on, what interests us.
Some of this may be challenging to us, very challenging. For what arouses us may be beyond the boundaries of what we find acceptable. At first.
To accept it, we have to accept it ourselves.
We have to release our judgements.
As we do it in this space, this internal space, we can start to do that in other parts of our lives.
The more of ourselves we accept, acknowledge and own, the more healing happens, the more complete and whole we become.
In the internal world we can release the guilt and shame over that which arouses us.
We can release it in our lives.

There is great power in the erotic, great beauty.
And it’s a world available to all of us.

We have 2 exciting Erotic Spirit Events coming up.
The first is EROS, the South African Amateur Erotic Film Festival, with a 1st prize of R10 000.
The 2nd is a special evening, a workshop of awakening The Erotic Spirit. We’ve expanded this into a whole evening of exploration and fun.

Awakening The Erotic Spirit
Fri 23rd August
8pm
Pharaohs Fantasy Club

The Erotic Spirit is a deep, powerful and exciting part of all of us.
We present a special evening of discussion, exploration and experience.
We begin with a talk and discussion on what erotic is, the difference between porn and eroticism etc.
We extend this into a practical and fun exploration of elements of the erotic which include:

A Nude Dessert ‘Platter’
Vintage Erotic Movies from 1920
Audio Erotica
Body Painting and Body Decoration
Sensual Photography
Erotic Bondage
Delectable Liquers
More…

This special evening is open to singles and couples at R250/person.
Booking is essential.
After the workshop the facilities of Pharaohs are open.Erotic Expression

We all have, even those of who don’t admit it, won’t acknowledge or own it, an erotic nature.
For many of us, it’s deep, it’s wide, it’s open.
And when we allow it expression, it’s fun, it’s exciting and challenging.
It’s a source of growth, a place of learning, a tool for growth, and a stream of endless entertainment, to say nothing of the arousal.

For a long time it wasn’t admitted that women didn’t have a fantasy world or erotic life.
Nancy Friday gave a wonderful wake-up call and shocked many when she published ‘My Secret Garden’.
This was a collection of women’s sexual fantasies, published as she received them. They cover a wide, very wide range of topics, themes and possibilities.
And they showed that women have fantasies, erotic thoughts and desires. Oh yes indeed!
Recently we’ve been subjected to ’50 Shades’ and the flood that’s come from it.

All this has made it ok for us, men and women, to acknowledge the erotic side of life.
More than that, we can enjoy, explore, express, relish and savour this beautiful aspect of ourselves.
The wonders of technology have given us many outlets for erotic expression.

The word ‘erotic’ conjures up many images.
What’s erotic for me may be pornographic for you.
This is a big debate and discussion which we go into much more in the Awakening the Erotic Spirit Workshop.

Beyond the arousal and excitement, our erotic nature has a deeper aspect and purpose.
It becomes a guide to our inner worlds, to that which we keep hidden, that which we don’t acknowledge.
The aspects of erotica that attract us tell us things about ourselves.
And allow us to explore them.
This requires an awareness, a consciousness.
We need to look at what arouses us, see where it comes from, what does it mean, where can it take us, what can it reveal, what can it heal, what can it show us about ourselves, about each other?
Then it can give us opportunity for discussion, for sharing, for exploring.
This gives safety, a way to go to places we wouldn’t otherwise have a way to go.

Beyond that, beyond the deep and meaningful, is the fun and excitement.
The world of erotica can be a world of such beauty.
In images, the human body is simply a manifestation of this beauty. It’s endless expression and variety touches us deeply.
The portrayal in words and pictures of acts of love, of sensuality and pleasure can be enchanting, they touch us.

As we explore this world it allows us to share what excites us, doors of communication open, we open ourselves, deeply, we become vulnerable in our sharing, our revealing. New levels of intimacy become possible.

And in this we can start to release judgement.
We can own the fantasy and the desire, what turns us on, what interests us.
Some of this may be challenging to us, very challenging. For what arouses us may be beyond the boundaries of what we find acceptable. At first.
To accept it, we have to accept it ourselves.
We have to release our judgements.
As we do it in this space, this internal space, we can start to do that in other parts of our lives.
The more of ourselves we accept, acknowledge and own, the more healing happens, the more complete and whole we become.
In the internal world we can release the guilt and shame over that which arouses us.
We can release it in our lives.

There is great power in the erotic, great beauty.
And it’s a world available to all of us.

We have 2 exciting Erotic Spirit Events coming up.
The first is EROS, the South African Amateur Erotic Film Festival, with a 1st prize of R10 000.
The 2nd is a special evening, a workshop of awakening The Erotic Spirit. We’ve expanded this into a whole evening of exploration and fun.

Awakening The Erotic Spirit
Fri 23rd August
8pm
Pharaohs Fantasy Club

The Erotic Spirit is a deep, powerful and exciting part of all of us.
We present a special evening of discussion, exploration and experience.
We begin with a talk and discussion on what erotic is, the difference between porn and eroticism etc.
We extend this into a practical and fun exploration of elements of the erotic which include:

A Nude Dessert ‘Platter’
Vintage Erotic Movies from 1920
Audio Erotica
Body Painting and Body Decoration
Sensual Photography
Erotic Bondage
Delectable Liquers
More…

This special evening is open to singles and couples at R250/person.
Booking is essential.
After the workshop the facilities of Pharaohs are open.

To book: jontisearll@mweb.co.za or 083 743 5129

 

Don’t forget we are still running the special on the “Awakening The Goddess” DVD for R250 for our newsletter subscribers

 

And an exciting new workshop for women only on Tuesday 13th August, Sexual Mastery for Women…

Owning your power and sexuality as a woman is very liberating, and learning sexual skills gives you confidence in the pleasure space with your partner. This workshop teaches sexual & sensual skills, things to do with your hands, your mouth and your body to take your partner to different pleasure levels, and teaching you how to find pleasure in what you gift your partner in the sexual space. There’s no nudity, we learn on latex models with much fun and open discussion, a space where you can really learn some sexual truths and ask the questions about men’s pleasure you’ve always wanted to know…

R340 per woman, contact annemarieclulow@gmail.com to book

 

 

We wish you so much pleasure

With gentleness, light & laughter

Jonti & Annie

 

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